Gail Vaz-Oxlade's Guide To:
Divorce and Money Management
Financially Smart Divorce
For more than 25 years you have witnessed Gail Vaz-Oxlade's trademark straight-up money wisdom, both on Radio and Television, most notably as host of TVs Till Debt Do Us Part, Princess and Money Moron. Gail is a best-selling Canadian financial author.
Gail Vaz-Oxlade's Guide To
Divorce and Money Management
Financially Smart Divorce
Divorce and Money Management
We live in a world of growing singleness. While lots of attention is being paid to senior singles, less has been given to women and men who find themselves suddenly single—through separation or divorce —or to those who come to the realization that perhaps partnership isn’t in the cards and they need to start planning for themselves. Single adults make up more than half the population of Canadians. And they’re facing financial and life challenges for which they’re unprepared.
If the mere mention of “finances” makes you groan, then The Common Sense Divorce is for you.
Trying to get through life without understanding money management is like trying to drive a car without a steering wheel. You can lurch your way along, jamming on the breaks every time a threat looms, or you can put the pedal to the metal, but the whole time you’re careening down the road you’ll be worrying about what you’re going to hit.
Needless to say, there’ll be some mess to clean up when you finally reach your destination.
Hindsight is always 20/20 and many people attempt divorce and then the prevailing singledom without organizing their finances beforehand and learning money management tactics. This is understandable, as it may be hard to set aside emotions long enough to get everything in order.
However, not doing so can result in serious money management issues with your financial future.
How to Avoid A Messy Divorce
- Seriously consider mediation before lawyer litigation
- If at all possible, stay out of the Family Courts
- Gather and organize your financial documents
- Do your homework, understand how divorce works in Ontario
How to Avoid A Messy Divorce
- Seriously consider mediation before lawyer litigation
- If at all possible, stay out of the Family Courts
- Gather and organize your financial documents
- Do your homework, understand how divorce works in Ontario
Divorce and Money Management
Making smart money decisions during a divorce is crucial for securing your financial future.
Divorces can be tough, and making mistakes with money during this time can have lasting effects. Here are some common money mistakes to avoid:
Not Knowing Your Finances:
- Make sure you understand your money situation. Know what you own, owe, earn, and spend. Consider getting help from a financial advisor to get a clear picture.
Forgetting About Taxes:
- Taxes matter! Different assets can have different tax impacts. Talk to a tax professional to avoid surprises.
Missing Hidden Money:
- Make sure both of you share all your financial info. Missing hidden money can affect how things get divided. Be open about your finances.
Spending Because of Emotions:
- Emotional stress can lead to impulsive spending. Try to make money decisions based on logic, not emotions.
Agreeing to Unfair Deals:
- Take your time with settlements. Rushing into an agreement without understanding it can be costly. Get advice to make sure it’s fair.
Ignoring Future Costs:
- Plan for life after divorce. Make a realistic budget considering new expenses like housing and utilities.
Forgetting to Update Important Documents:
- Change beneficiaries on life insurance and retirement accounts. Not doing this could mean your ex gets the money instead of who you want.
Keeping Joint Debts:
- Close joint accounts and separate debts. If you don’t, you might end up responsible for your ex’s debts.
Ignoring Retirement Savings:
- Don’t forget about retirement accounts during the divorce. Get advice on how to split or keep them.
Not Talking to Professionals:
- Speak with experts like financial advisors and lawyers. They can guide you and help you make smart decisions for your future.
Divorce is hard, and being smart with your money is important. Get advice, understand your finances, and make choices that set you up for a better future.
Still if you’ve managed to get this far without a financial plan, budget and investment agenda… you will want one now. A majority of marriages also have one partner who takes most of the responsibility when it comes to paying bills, which inadvertently leaves the other person in the dark about a lot of things.
It is YOU and you alone that is now singularly responsible for your money management. If you’re not familiar with how the money flows in and out of the family coffers because the other has always taken care of it, it’s time to step up to the proverbial plate. If you are someone who has always lived without a financial plan, then take this time of transition to financially recreate yourself going forward.
The Common Sense Divorce is going to help you to financially move forward in your life. Since there may be interruptions in your income as you go through the divorce, you’ll need a stash at the ready — an emergency fund — to fill the gaps. If necessary the Common Sense Divorce may be able to assist you with access to a line of credit or a supplemental credit card.
But YOU are starting a new phase of your life and YOU need to manage your money from this day forward. The Common Sense Divorce is going to help you to learn how to create your own budget, manage your debt, and create a personal investment strategy. Your money management plan starts now!
What It Means When Your Spouse Suggests The Common Sense Divorce
- Your spouse is wanting to keep your separation amicable, cost effective and out of Court
- The Common Sense Divorce is cheaper than lawyer litigation or the courts
- Family Mediation tends to be the faster divorce process
- Regardless. the courts will require you to consider mediation
- The Common Sense Divorce has an EXCELLENT success rate
What It Means When Your Spouse Suggests Mediation
- Mediation is typically cheaper than lawyers or the courts
- Mediation tends to be the faster divorce process
- The courts will require you to consider mediation first
- Mediation has an excellent success rate