Living in limbo is tough. Actually it’s more than tough, it’s devastating. And marriage limbo is only resolved when we finally make a decision. Am I choosing to stay and work on my relationship or am I choosing to ask for a divorce and move on with my life?
Think of those horrible times when we are waiting on tests result from the doctor. We live in angst. We scour the internet for something to hold onto. We can’t sleep. Ironically, when we finally get the results, good or bad, they’re easier to live with than the interim of waiting.
Words help us to clarify our tangled webs of thoughts and feelings. Here’s how others described their relationship ‘limbo tipping point’ and what made them ask for a divorce.